21 and Under Convention….
I only had time to stop by Thursday. I showed up just in time to catch the tail end of Dream’s inner game speech. It was solid. I wish I would have heard that info when I was 21.

I spoke for about an hour on college game. I couldn’t remember how long I was expected to speak so I prepared about 5 hours of content. 5 hours of college game, hmm…….. future product?

I love speaking about college game because it’s definitely my bag. Several of the principles Mr. M and I developed for our Social Circle Mastery seminar were born out of my college experience.

I like speaking to the younger guys. They have a lot of energy and they are fired up to learn this stuff. It’s impossible not to feed off of that when you are speaking. I’m a little jealous. I wish I would have found this stuff when I was a freshman in college. Jesus! On second thought……maybe it’s better that I didn’t. I would probably be the baby daddy of like 30 kids.

I spent most of my speech trying to hit the highlights of what I wish someone would have told me when I started college. I also spent a fair amount time trying to MURDER the sacred cows of classic pickup dogma. I think the worst thing that a young guy can do on a college campus is run around trying to emulate what he learned in The Game. (I Love The Game it changed my life) but trying to develop a super hero pickup persona has it’s time and place, but a college campus is not one of them. As a matter of fact that is the worst place to try and develop one.

At Love Systems we advise college guys and anyone gaming within the confines of a small social circle to learn the basic structure outlined in Savoy’s book Magic Bullets, but to ditch all the lame old guard community dogma including but not limited to, peacocking, ALWAYS trying to control the frame, opening every set, having 300 DHV stories, and amoging guys for no reason.

I teach guys that in college game and in Social Circle Mastery you are much better DHV’ing by first getting your sub communications under control and second by letting other people observe you in multiple high value situations. The ultimate DHV is creating a ‘Buzz’ about you. In Social Circle Mastery we define buzz as having people talk about you when you aren’t around. This trumps in weak DHV story you might develop.

DHV stories…..

In the words of Chris Rock…. “You ain’t got to lie to kick it.”
DHV stories were developed for cold approach because you have one shot at making it happen in cold approach so you don’t have weeks or months to develop ‘Buzz.’ Therefore, you have to tell DHV stories in order to convey your personality in 30 minutes or less. This is why cold approach is such an art form and why it is so tough.

But in social circle or college game you run a high risk of looking insecure, like a braggart, or like you are lying if you constantly look for places where you can slide in a DHV stories.

“But but but, Braddock, I have this friend and he tells the best stories and girls love him and and and he says cold approach, frame setting, and deep comfort are the be all end all of game! He’s the SELF proclaimed best ever!”

Yuck. Don’t care. Ask him for pictures of these girls. I’m telling you from first hand experience if you want the hottest girls in your social circle, running fast paced cold approach game is the WORST option. It’s not even the second or third best option. If you have access to a stable of hot girls you are going to see on a semi regular basis, RUN SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME!!!!!!! Fuck your friend.

“But..but…but…Braddock you teach cold approach. Why do you knock it so hard? You are hurting my feelings and making my friend upset.”

Awww tell your friend I’m sorry. I promise not to hit on any of his 5′s or 6′s. I actually love cold approach. I have spent the last few years of my life mastering it. I would never try to convince someone not to learn it. If you travel, live in a major city and don’t frequent the same venues, or are not in college it may be the only means of meeting women you have. If that is the case then social circle game is not possible for you. I understand. I have mastered both because I think cold approach is a blast but I have realized that it doesn’t have to be a way of life.

Hunting vs Farming…… Evolution of society

I like to think of cold approach as hunting and social circle game as farming.

Hunting…
It is a necessary skill all men should posses, but in a progressive society it slowly becomes more of a sport or a right of passage and less and less of a means for survival. When you are hunting you have to kill something every time you are hungry. Sometimes it’s the biggest best trophy animal of the herd and sometimes it’s the disease ridden runt. You may have to take what you can get because you don’t know when you will eat next. Every time you go out and don’t kill something you become hungrier and hungrier. When you could be spending that time laying inroads for access to bigger better hunting ground, you aren’t even thinking on those terms because you are starving!

Farming…
When you farm you do a lot of work up front followed by intermittent maintenance. Then when you are ready to harvest you come back and pick the best crops and throw away the weaker crops.

Omnivore…
When you combine the two this is true power. You have a harvest of crops growing, but you can go hunting for fun to see if you can find the trophy of the herd.

Basically……… LEARN BOTH!!!!!!!!!

Clubs in Orlando….
Really impressed by the girls in Orlando. I like tan blue eyed blondes. They were in no short supply of these girls. I stayed with one of my best friends Silver Back and he is really connected in Orlando so he took me to a club called 23 and the Oak Room. I learned a lot from him on just how quickly you can move into a new city and make Social Circle Mastery work. He moved to Orlando just a few months ago and already has access to any club he wants, is dating a really hot chick, and knows tons of value connectors in Orlando.

He was already good at cold approach when I met him, but seeing him combine the two was really validating for me. Quizzing him on what exactly he does and how he has added his own spin to Social Circle Mastery is going to make the seminar even stronger.

It was also nice running into my boys from Miami. I spoke at their laior a few months back and it was nice running into them again.

Until next time remember kids, playing with broken glass is one thing, eating it is another, but who am I to judge?

-Braddock

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Ok, so I texted her and at first I did well, but I am just as confused as I was left before ……I would like some advice on what to do next and or how she is feeling right now, so I know what steps to take next.

Here is the whole TEXT conversation

Me: Hey “My Boo”haha, whats up?
HB9: Lol! u found my number! did it take u that long
Me: Haha I bet you do that with all the guys.
HB9: No first time
Me: Haha I was telling my friend about this weekend, I had a blast!
HB9: And 4 having boys up in ur bed
HB9: I had fun too. still hate me?
Me: Nah, Why would I be mad at you?
HB9: Im a terrible beer pong partner
Me: Your no worst than Derrick(my roommate) at beer pong haha but WHAT ABOUT GUYS IN MY BED!?
HB9: I dunno, its fucked upMe: Explain
HB9: NopeMe: Is that a term or do you mean like literally? Haha its hard to keep up with you xD
Me: OMG I get it now hahahahah
HB9: Get what silly?
Me: Haha anyways, so we should prob do it again sometime.
HB9: Ya we should cuz ur kinda funny
Me: Ok, I got something going on saturday, would you like to a company me? If not you got a sister? hahahaha
HB9: Sorry no sister. so wats this thing goin on saturday?(20-25min pass)HB9: HELLO
Me: Sorry at work lol. I dont like making plans to far in advance. I will call you thrusday with more details.
(1 hour passes)
Me: Sound good?
HB9:Sure.

My Response:
This is weak sauce man. She is giving you plenty of compliance. You can feel in her responses she is on the fence about you, waiting to see where you are going to lead the interaction. You are totally playing it safe with every text.

How would you text this girl if she was a 6 who had a cool personality, wasn’t hot enough to date, but you wanted to keep around cause you might bang her someday if you were ever drunk and she was a last resort?

I’m not saying you would get all dirty on her, but you would challenge her, be playful and push the envelope. Yes, there are situations when you don’t want to do this, IE when a girl is giving you little or no compliance, but the above texts are plenty of compliance.

Example…..

HB9: I had fun too. still hate me?
Me: Nah, Why would I be mad at you?
HB9: Im a terrible beer pong partner

If you are wondering where there was a window to show a playful side or show a little edge, this is one of them.

I wonder how she would have responded if you said something like this…

HB9: “I had fun too. Still hate me?”
Me: “Probably, for what?”
HB9: “I’m a terrible beer pong partner.”
Me: “Yeah, you do suck. I definately picked you cause your hot, not for your beer pong skills. My back hurts from carrying our team. Me=Jordan You=Steve Kerr”

Ok and this is also weak sauce….

Me: Is that a term or do you mean like literally? Haha its hard to keep up with you xD
Me: OMG I get it now hahahahah
HB9: Get what silly?
Me: Haha anyways, so we should prob do it again sometime.
HB9: Ya we should cuz ur kinda funny
Me: Ok, I got something going on saturday, would you like to a company me? If not you got a sister? hahahaha
HB9: Sorry no sister. so wats this thing goin on saturday?(20-25min pass)
HB9: HELLO
Me: Sorry at work lol. I dont like making plans to far in advance. I will call you thrusday with more details.
(1 hour passes)
Me: Sound good?
HB9:Sure.

I want you to read this again, but you read as if you are HB9 and “your” responses are from a girl you know you could have, but don’t necessarily want. Can you feel the power shift when you do that? Can you feel how you are chasing?

Next thing that needs improvement….

Me: Is that a term or do you mean like literally? Haha its hard to keep up with you xD
Me: OMG I get it now hahahahah
HB9: Get what silly?

I feel like this was an attempt to bait her into something sexual. Am I right? If I am this is not very good man. For the next month or so don’t worry about trying to get girls to talk dirty. My advice is that you work on being playful with girls and promise yourself that you won’t chase. Playful, flirty, and push/pull. Don’t become some asshole who has a mean joke for every sentence, but play with it for a while and find a nice middle ground.

Was this trying to take things sexual? Don’t do it like this. She was nowhere near going sexual. When a girl goes sexual it is usually more overt and there is usually more of a hint that includes you. She was being general and non sexual.

Then in the end I feel like you are trying to be smooth and challenging, but it just doesn’t come off that way at all. It sounds like you really don’t have something cool, but you hope you can get her to come without telling her.

Me: Haha anyways, so we should prob do it again sometime.
HB9: Ya we should cuz ur kinda funny
Me: Ok, I got something going on saturday, would you like to a company me? If not you got a sister? hahahaha
HB9: Sorry no sister. so wats this thing goin on saturday?(20-25min pass)
HB9: HELLO
Me: Sorry at work lol

Up to here you are fine!!!! Now just tell her what exactly is going on Saturday or tell her you will call her this weekend and let her know. Don’t try to be smooth on something simple. She is just trying to collect options for Saturday. You can be smooth and mysterious if a girl already wants you. It means shit if a girl is on the fence or has only moderate interest.

(20-25min pass)
HB9: HELLO
Me: Sorry at work lol. I dont like making plans to far in advance I will call you thrusday with more details.
(1 hour passes)
Me: Sound good?
HB9:Sure.

Ok, the reason 1 hour passes is because you made it sound like the next time you will communicate is Thursday, which is fine. Just call her Thursday with plans and lose the “I don’t like making plans this far in advance” crap. If that were true then you wouldn’t tell her you have something ‘planned’ for Saturday. That’s where you sound like you are trying to be smooth or trying to play hard to get, but it’s actually just weak.

Minus that “I don’t make plans in advance” stuff it was fine, but then you chase HARD with….. “Sound good?”

Me: Sorry at work lol. I dont like making plans to far in advance I will call you thrusday with more details.(1 hour passes)
Me: Sound good?

Why is this chasing? Because you tried to sound smooth, busy, challenging, dominant, whatever you want to call it with the “I’ll call you thursday with more details” as if you are waiting to here back from Brad Pitt and Paris Hilton about where the big party is going to be, but then 1 hour later you are so worried abou what this girl thinks that you just have to make sure she didn’t take it the wrong way so you say… “Sound good?”

See why that is weak sauce? It contradicts the whole image you tried to play. Drop the image from now on. Because here is the deal. If you randomly insert some image or some challenging text, but then contradict it every other text she sees you as weak.

The key is to drop any and all images and just be playful and challenging from the start. Then when she asks you what you are doing this weekend or you ask her and she is compliant be relaxed about it.

Good example, maybe something like this..
…
Me: Ok, I got something going on saturday, would you like to a company me? If not you got a sister? hahahaha
HB9: Sorry no sister. so wats this thing goin on saturday?
(20-25min pass)
HB9: HELLO
Me: “Fighting terrorism, rescuing children from a burning orphanage, you know the usual. lol But after that my friend Mike is having a barbeque for the UFC fight. Should be fun.”

Until next time remember kids, milk has an expiration date for a reason.

-Braddock

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The last few months has been crazy for me. Mr. M and I launched our Social Circle Mastery seminar in June, Savoy and I are working on a phone and text game product (which is fucking unreal), and Mr. M and I are putting the finishing touches on an Inner Game Seminar which, in concert with the Social Circle Mastery seminar, has taken us over a year to piece together!

I’m really proud of this stuff. I should take pictures of my office back home. It looks like a schizophrenic and a 3 year old are sharing this place. I have about 300 post it notes stuck on everything, 20 notebooks with random scribblings everywhere, that only I could decipher, and shelves of books each ruined with highlighter and mini post it notes. This is quite the adventure trying to guide girls away from when they open the door to the bat cave. I can’t tell you how many times I would be reading something or typing something and look up and the fucking sun was coming up. I have also spent about half my day over the last year either reading emails from Mr. M or typing them to him on these topics.

About once a week I will type up all of this madness, take it to Kinko’s, and put it in spiral binders so I can take it on the plane with me. I literally have shelves of spiral binders from Kinko’s. The girl at Kinko’s knows me by name!

Mr. M upon seeing my 5 spiral binders in London:
(Said in a condescending Australian accent while shaking his head)

Mr M: “God damn Braddock what the hell is all that?”

Braddock: “It’s a fucking space ship. What the hell do you think it is? It’s stuff I’m adding to our Social Circle Mastery notes you dick.”

Mr. M: (Still shaking his head) “Has anyone ever told you that you kill ants with fucking atomic bombs? Cause you do.”

Braddock: (Flipping him off)

The Don trained me as an approach coach. I probably helped him with 25 or 30 of his bootcamps so he knows I do shit like this, but I’ve turned it up a notch since working on Social Circle Mastery, Inner Game, and Text and Phone Game.

The Don after seeing my giant Inner Game spiral:

The Don: “lol What the fuck is that? How can you possibly need that many post it notes on one notebook?….. You crazy fuck.”

Braddock: (Flipping him off)

All the manic scribbling and hours of mind numbing reading have been worth every second. Social Circle Mastery is off the chain and I can’t wait to launch Inner Game. I love Social Circle Mastery because its easy to apply, yet if guys will follow through on what we teach their social lives will never be the same.

Working on this Inner Game seminar has changed my life in so many ways. It’s forced me to question every belief I’ve ever had and look at and confront my deepest insecurities and character flaws.

It’s been really hard physically and psychologically, but I wanted it to be that way. Mr. M and I would have launched this sooner (we’ve had most of the content for months) but we wanted to make sure we were living the things we planned on teaching. Not just spouting off some shit we read in a book and telling other people it was good for them.

I can’t stand the idea of teaching anything that I am not living or that I can’t do personally. I fucking HATE “get like me” guys who aren’t putting their money where their mouth is. They talk all kinds of shit and tell stories that sound sexy about sleeping with tons of girls and having lifestyles that sound out of this world, but you meet them or watch them and their ‘true’ results are laughable. Ugly ass girls, shattered inner game, and ZERO lifestyle. I could give a shit if they are exposed or not or if they are truly living the lifestyle the preach about. However, I think it sucks for guys who look to them for hope or who look to them as a benchmark for success. They are chasing something based on what some asshole is lying about. Feeling bad about themselves wondering why they are struggling so hard to find the same success as their hero.

I feel good about what we have developed because it’s not theory and it’s not ego based bullshit designed to make us sound cool. The content comes from real 1st hand experience. I know it works because we field tested it over and over to make sure it was repeatable. We decided not to add anything to the seminar unless that technique could give us each comparable results on separate continents. (Mr. M in Europe and me in North America).

Alright, I’m to tired to rant any longer. I’ve got to finish packing so I can go to sleep. I can’t remember the last time I slept in my own bed for more than 3 days in a row! In the last two months I’ve been in London, Amsterdam, LA, and Chicago.

I’ve got some great stories for you guys and some great video of live pickup I plan on posting soon. I’m heading to Denver tomorrow to run a bootcamp and then next week I’ll be speaking at the Under 21 Convention Thursday and then I’ll be running my own Orlando Bootcamp Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.

Under 21 Convention
(12pm to 8pm, July 24th – 26th)
The Under 21 Convention in Orlando. It’s going to be sick!

They have put together an all star cast of speakers for this event. If you
are going to be in the area you would be crazy not to drop in and check this out. It’s only $100 dollars to attend. It’s rare to get that level of information at such a low price. I will be speaking Thursday. I have put together a presentation with some great content for college game and social circle game. Hope to see you guys there.

To sign up:
e-mail support@under21convention.com . Put attending in the subject line and please state how many people will be attending with you that will NOT be e-mailing the staff themselves

Anymore questions about the convention? Click here

Until next time kids remember, “You’re moms not a whore she just crushes a lot.”

-Braddock

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Helicase sent this to me yesterday.

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Soul has taken over my blog for today. I will do a violent overthrow of this tyrant later today or maybe tomorrow. It depends on how quickly I can:

1. Accumulate the necessary resources and man power.
2. Finish my motivational speech to the troops. You have to be careful what you say when you are writing a speech trying to persuade a bunch of men to embark on a suicide mission. I’m thinking I’ll start the speech off with a joke just to kind of set a relaxed tone, we’ll see.
3. Find his weakness.

Until then gather round kids and let London Soul tell you a story…….
-Braddock

Thanks mate, you are a strange strange man!

There are two themes to this story that are important for developing your skills with women (and indeed, improving any area of your life): Experimentation and Persistence.

Whenever you get good at something, you will find you periodically reach a plateau in your skill level. At this stage, you need to experiment and start trying different methods and techniques. In this case, I wanted to experiment with daytime physical escalation. I normally advocate that my students avoid serious kino (physical touching) in Day Game until they are on a date with the girl. But I was curious to see whether I could kiss girls quickly in the daytime and still seduce them.

The second theme is persistence. It is important to realize that when you think something should be possible, you need to be persistent in order to achieve it. 99% of people don’t have enough determination and will give up too soon. But if you really believe something can work and you persist at it, eventually you will crack the secret. That’s how I originally got into Day Game.

The Holland Trip & Real Man Conference 2008

SmoothDoc from the Dutch Seduction Lair invited my good friend Dr Yen and me to visit him in Holland to give a talk to the Dutch Lair. I’d never met this guy before, but was completely in awe of him when I did. He’s putting together the Real Man Conference 2008, which is an international summit for guys wanting to improve their skills with women and is taking place in Amsterdam on the 20th and 21st September.

What really impressed me about SmoothDoc was his devotion to the event. He’s not even sure if he’s going to make any money from it. He already has the lifestyle he wants: a lovely house in the suburbs, a flash car and a loving and beautiful wife. He tells me he is putting together the conference because it is his dream. He equates it to seeing a beautiful woman on the street and thinking, “I have to approach her, I have to try.” For him, this conference is the same deal. There’s nothing I respect more in a man than determination and integrity.

Experimentation

Hanging out with Dr Yen is great. He came to one of my London lair talks about half a year back and has now become a good friend. It’s amazing when you teach someone something and then you watch as they develop it and improve upon it until they have their own unique style.

Dr Yen is a powerhouse of sexual energy. Skinny with bleached blond rock star hair, he is the Italian Stallion of the modern era. He tells me about pushing physical escalation boundaries on the street at night and how this helps him to filter out the girls that aren’t going to go home with him.

It sounds intense but exciting. I normally make it a rule not to escalate physically with a girl in Day Game until we’re on an instant date. But I have started to wonder how fast and far I can push things physically in the daytime.

I am doing a few street sets the first day I’m in Amsterdam when I spot a beautiful girl wearing sexy, big sunglasses sitting at a table outside a coffee shop. I go over and run one of my standard direct openers, “Excuse me, you are so gorgeous I had to come and say hello” – she opens up like a can of beans. A few minutes later, I’m taking her number and trying to establish a logistical plan for spending more time with her.

She tells me she’s going to Paris early tomorrow morning, so I’m thinking either I try to sleep with her this afternoon or when she’s back from Paris a day later. I have to get back to Dr Yen, so I take her number and leave. A little while later I meet her at the station for a few minutes and just think, “Fuck it, go for the kiss.” It’s broad daylight and I’ve interacted with her for all of four minutes, but all I can think about is pushing things as far and fast as I can.

I look at her, start giving her my seduction eyes, lean in slowly to kiss each cheek, pull back, and then pull her in to kiss me on the lips. There’s tension and some resistance, but my lips touch hers. There’s more resistance, so I add in some tongue and her resistance falters. She is mine.

I try texting and calling her to meet me when she comes back from Paris, but she flakes. Damn it. I conclude that I pushed too far in the initial interaction without having good enough logistics to continue it. The rapid daytime makeout needs modification, but I am determined to make it work.

Persistence

Next up is a Chinese girl with a loose green top that doesn’t leave much to the imagination. I open her on the street and start touching her arms and hands immediately. There is resistance, but I keep talking and making her laugh. I tease her by saying that she wore those clothes on purpose so that I would approach her.

Once I’ve got her giggling, I convince her to come have a drink with me. Something about her top and billowing breasts possess me while we sit there in the hot sun, and suddenly I turn into super kino escalation guy. My hands
are ALL over her and at first there is resistance, but then she starts to enjoy it and keeps saying, “This is so crazy!” I keep going for the makeout, but there is even more resistance. I am fighting through it like a trooper. I start kissing her neck and whispering all the naughty things I want to do to her into her ear. It’s about 3pm, broad daylight outside, and I’ve known this girl for all of ten minutes.

I convince her to come to my hotel room another twenty minutes later. Then I have to wait until Dr Yen gets out. While he is getting ready, I build some meagre comfort with the girl. When Yen leaves, I caveman her onto the bed. There’s more resistance and ultimately she refuses to have sex with me. Damn it. This time I had the logistics, but I didn’t have the comfort. With some seriously blue balls at this stage, I resolve to make the rapid daytime makeout work.

Reward

Yen and I decide to hit up the free music festival in The Hague. Festivals are awesome because everyone is always in such a good mood. I spot a beautiful young brunette girl on the tram over there, but she’s too far away to open.

We get off the tram and a few minutes later I notice she’s just in front of me walking slowly by herself. Boom! A girl walking slowly is always a good sign for a Same Day Lay; they’re typically in a slightly dreamlike state, almost waiting for something exciting to happen to them. It also means she’s not in a rush to go meet anyone either, which means you could be the person she spends the rest of the afternoon with.

One of the great things about Day Game is that once you get over your approach anxiety, it’s actually very simple and easy to strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman. In most situations you can either use a Direct or a Situational Opener and then transition off it with something interesting and/or funny. My goal is to make a girl laugh within the first minute or two of the interaction; that way she’ll completely relax and happily continue talking with me.

Dr Yen runs off to open some blonde girl in pink tights. I walk up behind the young brunette girl and tap her lightly on the arm from behind.

Soul: Hey, my friend has just gone to chat up that girl over there, so I’m bored and need company. How are you?

Her: Oh, ok [smiling]. I’m fine thanks.

Soul: So have you been to this festival before?

Her: No, it’s my first time.

Soul: Awesome, me too. I’m in Holland for the weekend, I love it here. Everyone is so cute and friendly. I love the Dutch accent too. It always sounds like you guys are talking with your mouth full!

Her: [Giggles]

Soul: Where are your friends? [I’m establishing logistics]

Her: I’m meeting a friend a bit later, but just thought I’d come by myself for a bit and wait until she gets here.

Soul: [*Ding ding ding* A girl walking around by herself is waiting to be swept off her feet] Wow, that’s brave of you to come to a huge festival by yourself. I really like that kind of independence in a woman.

Her: [Beaming smile] Thanks!

I continue walking and talking with her. Five minutes later I’m wondering whether I can kiss her or not. I always tell my students, “Don’t be someone who makes assumptions as to whether something is possible or not, be willing to test those assumptions with your actions.”

So I stop her, tell her that she has amazing skin, and stroke a lock of her hair back. No reaction. She just keeps on looking at me. It’s a good sign. I lean in and she reciprocates. We kiss, softly and gently at first, and then more voraciously. I learned my lesson from the previous daytime makeouts, so I pull away a few seconds later. I am not going to make the mistake of doing too much, too soon.

I take her by the hand and we keep on walking and talking. I run my standard comfort and kino escalation stuff – we sit down on the grass, listen to the music and I put my arms around her and stroke her gently. I find out all about her passions, her interests, where she has travelled, and what she wants to be when she grows up. I tell her a bit about myself, without giving too much away.

Girls don’t need to know all the details about you. They just want to see some evidence that you could be the kind of man they spend time with. What this is exactly varies from woman to woman, but there are certain characteristics that are almost universally attractive, such as passion, ambition, determination, adventurousness and integrity.

We keep walking and eventually meet up with her friend. I tell her that I’d love to spend more time with her and seed the idea of having drinks at my hotel later on in the evening. When you seed an idea like this early on, it achieves two things. It tests the water to see how they react to the idea and it makes it seem smoother later on when it’s actually time to move back to your place.

I start setting sexual frames as well to make sure that she understands (on an emotional level) that we are going to be intimate. I tell her I am going to kiss her delicious skin all over, and that she’s going to enjoy running her hands over my muscular, taut body. She is smiling and says, “That sounds nice.” It’s on.

I go catch up with Dr Yen while she goes off with her friend. I leave them to chill for a while, and then tell her to come meet me outside the festival. We get in a tram and head back to my hotel.
Once we get inside, she looks at me, and says, “I have to tell you something.” I’ve heard these words enough times to know what’s coming. “I’m a virgin,” she says.

I’ve been with plenty of virgins in the past, and I’m grateful to have learnt from my mistakes enough to give every virgin I meet a great first time. The old adage, “Leave them better than you found them,” is never more relevant than with a virgin.

Soul: [Big, warm smile] That’s ok. We don’t have to do anything that you don’t want to. I’m going to take care of you tonight, ok honey?

Her: I know. That’s why I came home with you. I just felt so comfortable with you. This is crazy. I’ve never slept with any of my boyfriends before. I always lied and told them I was waiting for the one, but I don’t think I was. I think I just needed someone to make me feel as comfortable as you have.

I look at her, smile, and lead her by the hand to my bed. I say, “Let’s get into bed,” and we take off our clothes.

I spend the next half hour making the softest, gentlest and most sensual love to her. Once I’m sure she’s enjoying it and it’s not hurting her, I shift up a few gears and pound her into the bed.

I get this text from her when she gets home,

“Hey Jeremy, how are you? I just wanted to let you know that I really loved spending time with you. This night was amazing, just as you are. I wish you and your friend a good time in Amsterdam. We’ll stay in to
uch. Xx”

It was a beautiful day outside and night had just begun to fall.

Alright mates, that’s all for now,

Soul

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RULES OF JAPANESE BUG FIGHTS

1. Two Bugs to a fight
2. Bug fights go on as long as they have to
3. No outside weapons in Bug Fights

http://www.japanesebugfights.com/user.htm

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Email:

“Braddock, thanks for posting that thread on “Fuck Oneitus” (a while back, found it with some determined searching) I’m going through a really tough time right now and your little “rant” on moving on has inspired me like nothing else throughout this entire process!!”

Reply:

I’m glad to hear it helped you. That is one of the hardest things a man can go through, so I feel you man.

One piece of advice I wish someone would have told me….

Don’t work to replace her or work to find a new girl to make you feel better. Don’t look to find a hotter or cooler girl to make her jealous. That mindset just keeps you trapped in a prison of the past. All your actions are oriented in reaction to her. This keeps her at the front of your mind constantly.

Try to look at your life as if it was a book. If you were writing “your book”, that relationship was just a chapter in your book. Let’s call it chapter 4. That chapter is over. Now, who knows what adventures or stories will make up chapter 5 and beyond!

But you can’t start writing the rest of the book until you stop reading and rehashing chapter 4. I promise it will get better and I promise you will look back at this as one of those tough battles that you wouldn’t want to endure again, but you are so glad you did. It will make you stronger and it will be a catalyst to tremendous growth in your life.

Get away from that bitch, take down the pictures, stop letting friends talk to you about her, stop talking to other people about her, don’t check her facebook or myspace. Every time you do that, you are no longer writing chapter 5. You are reading chapter 4 again, hoping it will end differently. Fuck that! You’ve read chapter 4, you know how it ends. Start writing chapter 5 and make it one of the best chapters in your book.

Good luck man! Thanks for the shout out,

-Braddock

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