Social Circle Mastery: Get In The Path of The Storm
(Getting in the path of the storm = putting yourself in places where there are tons of women)
Being great at Social Circle Mastery revolves around your ability to be around the type of women you want to date REGULARLY. Anything else is cold approach. If you want to start dating the hottest women in your area, then you are most likely going to need to shake up your social life.  I can assure you that these women have a rich social life right now and they ARE NOT looking for you. To snag them consistently in cold approach your game will have to be off the charts. However, if you get masterful at social circle mastery, you can have endless opportunities with these women and build your value with them over time.
If you want to build a social circle full of the hottest women in your area you are going to need to rearrange your life in a manner that puts you in situations to consistently meet these women.  Guess what…….The club is the WORST place to try to meet this end. Women are on guard, drunk, and clickish in high end clubs. Of course they can be cracked and we cover just that in our Comprehensive Bootcamps. The problem is, you can never be sure that these women will frequent the same club, therefore you are essentially starting at zero every time you walk out the door.
If you want to add these women to your social circle you will need to do some recon in your city. What type of girls do you want? Where can they be found in ‘non club’ times?  Are there classes that are packed with these women? Are there networking events? Are there clubs and organizations?  You need to go find out.  Most cities have a local gazette full of the cities monthly activities. Go to www.citysearch.com and see what’s going on in your city.
Either way, if you want social circle mastery you will need to put yourself in the path of the storm and that is not likely your friends house, your local bar, or even a club. I’m not saying you can’t build a dynasty out of just frequenting bars and clubs. You can.  However, building a social circle only out of going to bars and clubs is like trying to get rich having only one source of income. It’s possible, but not likely. Getting in the path of the storm is like having many streams of passive income. You make money while you sleep.
Another benefit of building your social circle in this way is that its more natural. If you are taking an acting class for example, the group bonds and forms a relationship naturally. After 3 or 4 weeks of hanging out together you know each other pretty well and it’s not strange at all to invite people out. They are much less likely to flake, because they have much more time and shared experiences with you, so they feel more comfortable with you.
Getting in the path of the storm early is like laying a foundation to your house of social circle mastery. Once you develop a group of men and women to go out with from these outside groups, it makes it so much easier to add layers of people to that foundation from random people you meet at bars and clubs.
Instead of walking into a bar alone and roaming around looking for friends and looking strange, you walk in with a group who knows you and who you already have fun with.  People are much more inclined to be apart of a pre existing group then align with a solo stranger.
Sitting around in your same old group or frequenting the same dry holes hoping they will miraculously become packed with hot women is ridiculous thinking.
Stay classy San Diego,
-Braddock
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