College Game and Social Circle Mastery by Braddock (8 of 8)
Social Circle Game
Social Circle game is as important if not more important than any other piece of the puzzle. All other forms of game you do, whether that be Day game or cold approach club game, should simply be tributaries feeding the larger river of your social circle. At the end of the day you don’t want to be counting on cold approach alone.
The dating coaches I know who are the very best and who date the hottest women consistently meet MOST of the women they date through friends or in Social Circle s itu ations.  Most dating coaches I know, especially the ones who are the best at cold approach, still only meet about 25% of the women they date off pure cold approach. Most guys put off building a Social Circle because it is a slow mind numbing process. It can take months to build a Social Circle you are happy with, but it’s worth it.
One thing that all humans are constantly chasing is social acceptance. You can read all the eastern philosophy books you want and watch fight club 3,000 times and convince yourself that you truly don’t give a shit what ANYONE thinks about you, but at the end of the day it feels good to have a group that cares about you and accepts you.
I see way to many guys on bootcamp who are hurting inside because they have ZERO social circle, guys and girls, and they are convinced that mastering cold approach will fix the pain that is in their chest. While I do think cold approach is an awesome skill set and it can give you a freedom that nothing else can, it should be a skill you learn in concert with building a cool lifestyle.
Cold approach is a sloppy up and down game no matter how good you get. Even if your Inner Game is rock solid, cold approach can be a bit of a beat down at times, especially if you are new to this stuff and your skill set is not up to par. Having a Social Circle gives you psychological certainty. It gives you that feeling of consistency that everything is ok and that no battle is life or death.
Cold Approach
When you are living off of cold approach alone you can feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster. One week you are killing it and you are riding a high. Then the next week that girl didn’t text you back and you had 5 girls in a row blow you out…..ouch.
If you have a big Social Circle full of cool guys and girls than you don’t feel that sting. You don’t care anymore. You see it for what it is, just a fun game. You aren’t worried about any one girl or any one encounter or any one approach and this makes you naturally more attractive.
If you develop a large Social Circle full of the right people you’re cold approach game will mysteriously explode. Most of my naturally friends make TONS of mistakes if you were grading them, but they simply don’t care and women can feel that.  They are just having fun and flirting. They are consistently meeting and dating other beautiful women in their social circle, so any random woman they meet through cold approach is just a bonus.
Having a large Social Circle allows you the ability to focus on other things besides women. You consistenly have women in your life, so you can relax and focus on business, friends, hobbies, passions, etc…   With cold approach you are only as good as your last battle, so your mind is constantly obsessing about either your last victory or failure or when your going to get to go out and try again.
If you never develop a solid Social Circle you will have to run flawless cold approach game to and try to sniper off the hottest girls and few people on the planet are capable of doing this CONSISTENTLY. On the other hand, everyone is capable of setting up an amazing social circle.
Stay classy San Diego,
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