Dating Coach Braddock on Social Circle Mastery (6 of 7)
A Note To The Small Town Guys:
Social Circle Mastery is the key to dating the hottest women consistently. If you live in a smaller city than you know the importance of making every girl count. You don’t have the luxury of someone who lives in a major city, who can go out 7 nights a week and see countless beautiful women. In smaller cities the cold hard fact is that there are a limited amount of beautiful women. Those who play the game right and set themselves up for success will be the ones who date those women.
Look around you at the guys in your area who are dating the hottest women. I will guarantee you that they are not doing it through cold approach. I’m not saying they never cold approach or that they don’t randomly snag a hot woman through cold approach, but I know from experience that the guys in smaller cities who date the hottest women are SCM super stars. Guy in these areas may not know all the technical terms for what we talk about in Social Circle Mastery, but I assure you they follow the principles with great precision.
Naturals in these areas are good with women, but they are good with women in a different way then a master cold approach guy who is good with women in let’s say NYC or LA. These guys would both struggle if they had to switch spots. As the saying goes, “Necessity is the mother of all invention.” Guys in smaller cities quickly that your social value must be protected at all costs because you are going to see the same people over and over again and that your name is all you have.
Guys in big cities know they will not likely see the same women week in and week out and that when they are away from their social circle, fortune will only favor the bold. They don’t have the luxury of sitting back and waiting. They can’t sit around playing chess with the room. They must act now.
This is not to say that guys in big cities don’t need Social Circle Mastery, it’s just different. Guys in big cities are lucky enough to do both. They can go out any night of the week and work on their cold approach without worrying about doing long term damage to their social circle. Then, they can pick certain nights and certain venues to work on Social Circle building so they can start building a dynasty. Small town guys don’t really have this luxury. Guys in big cities should work on Social Circle Mastery because it can be the difference between getting access to the hottest girls in the hottest venues vs going to horrible meat markets with terrible guy to girl ratios.
As a guy who has now lived in both an extremely small city and in one of the biggest cities in the United States, I can tell you that Social Circle Mastery will change your life no matter where you live. However, if you live in a small city I beg you to heed my warning and become a titan of Social Circle Mastery in your home town. Trying to be a cold approach star in your 1 or 2 local bars will blow up in your face, even if you are good. If you are going to practice cold approach, make sure you drive a city or two over.  When I lived in Oklahoma I would drive to Tulsa or Dallas to practice cold approach. I rarely did cold approach in OKC and I mainly focused on Social Circle building.
My closest friends back home always dated the hottest women in our area, but it was almost NEVER through cold approach. It was because they naturally followed what I have outlined in Social Circle Mastery.
Work on both, because they are both crucial skill sets, but make sure you limit your cold approaches to just a few per night in your small town. In the words of my grandfather….”Don’t shit where you eat.”
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