07/27/09Filed under: Inner Game

Want Hotter Women? Get Your Mind Right

I get a lot of emails asking me about Inner Game.  Guys want to know where they should start and what writings or products are the foundations.

I personally think the best Inner Game resource, without taking our Inner Game Seminar, is the “How To Be An Alpha Male” audio series.  On this audio series, Sheriff, Mr. M, and myself really hash through some of the most common Inner Game sticking points and things you can do to blast through them.

Most people take for granted the fact that Inner Game is the cornerstone to being successful with women.  Without having a strong foundation of certain beliefs and a strong self concept, it won’t matter what you say.  Women will see right through the facade and be able to tell that inside you are still a little boy trying to act like a man.

Women will pick up on subtle sub communications that will be slightly off because of how you feel about yourself and how you feel about women.  You will flinch in subtle ways that you may not even be aware you are doing.

Have you ever been around a natural who technically made tons of mistakes if you were going by the book and who has no idea what a Routine is, but for some reason women can’t get enough of him?

Well, that’s because of his Inner Game.  His beliefs system is so strong and his self concept is so high that he rarely flinches.  This is not something you can fake for very long.  This only comes from deep identity level beliefs.  To many guys out there have a veneer of game that will buy them 5 minutes with a woman, but wonder why they never get laid or why they can’t keep an attractive women.

They’ve memorized all the lines, but they have made zero internal shifts.  They are still the scared little boy who has deservingness issues with women.  He still feels like a nerd inside or like these women could not or should not really like him.

At the end of each of my bootcamps I recommend an audio series for each student.  The How To Be An Alpha Male audio series is the one I recommend more than any other.  I also get tons of emails from guys telling me how much this audio series cleaned them up and made them feel better inside.

Here’s what others of said about this audio series:

“It’s 100% totally not cool to review a CD I was part of, but: DAMN, this shit’s good.  Mr. M and Braddock kill it, and I provide the comedy British accent…”  -Sheriff

“This is arguably the most valuable interview series CD out. Period.    Get Familiar.”  -CCarter

“This is easily my favorite Audio Series I’ve been a part of. The content is sick”  -Braddock

“I’ve listened to this CD several times already. I think this CD and jealousy plotlines were above and beyond content wise.
Thanks for making it?”  -Cane

“Without a doubt the best one out. Braddock is just sick, he should be on every interview, imo.” -jailhouse

“I have to agree with other people here, this is the BEST release so far. If I could recommend anyone one volume, it would be this one. There is so much content that you can use. I also took a lot more notes than I usually do. The trio was a great combination. You can hear that Braddock really has his stuff together, Mr. M has great insights, and Sheriff provides his laid back money advice.It has really opened my eyes on a lot of things, such as jealousy, getting stuff done, and being internally centered.   10/10.”     -Bonsai

“If the interview series collection were MMA fighters, this interview would easily be in the likes of champions: Fedor, Anderson Silva, or BJ Penn. Having being looked at as the base for great pick-up game, Inner Game has become a hot topic. Although, being an alpha male is not all of Inner Game, for me, it is a great majority.

This interview makes Braddock, Sheriff, and Mr. M responsible for breaking down this subject to their eager students. The interview runs approximately for 1:16:42 and the audio quality will not disappoint. The instructors don’t just explain what an alpha male is, but also, techniques that will help you become an alpha of your own. These techniques will not only help you with women, but help in all aspects of your life.
The first part of the interview discusses traits that an alpha male possesses and how wanna-be alphas differ from the pure alphas.

Traits of an alpha can probably recited by most. If you’re not most the instructors lay them out for you. It’s also a good reminder of what you should be striving for.

The wanna-bes are given a beating in this interview. The guys touch on many characteristics of an alpha male that the wanna-be tries to achieve, but in the wrong way. One of my favorite quotes came from Braddock on this subject,

“An alpha male has a healthy competitive spirit, I think, but he’s only competing with himself. So, when he succeeds, he never succeeds at other people’s expense.”

This is something that I’m very guilty of and now see that I’m continuously measuring my accomplishments to others, instead of learning from there success. I’m glad I was able to recognize it and not be blinded by, what they call, my own self-deception.

The 3 gurus emphasize staying on your purpose. This naturally creates boundaries that must be enforced. They go about how this extends out to jealousy, that if your on your passion, your purpose and you enforce your boundaries well, jealousy shouldn’t affect you. They teach listeners how to put emotion aside when jealousy arises and allow logic to take its place.

An interesting topic also covered is the idea of adopting the identity of an alpha male. From Tyler Durden to Maximus, the guys give advice on how to correctly emulate an alpha male so no one goes and starts creating a cult or slicing heads off with swords.

Also, many books are suggested for your reading pleasure. There are even Tony Robbins references in this interview.
This interview is definitely a must have. The idea of becoming a natural is always something a lot of people strive for, but I’m not about to get into the argument of natural game vs. scripted game. No matter what you’re striving for in the art of pickup, this interview will help your game. Until next time, make sure to spade and neuter your pet. GO NY JETS!” -CCarter

“I really enjoyed this interview and I give a lot of credit to this audio in the development of the new alpha “me”.” -Irishman81908

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