Dating Coach Carbeau: How to Flirt With Women
(Above Picture is of The Don. His annual Christmas Card…It’s weird, I know, but at least he’s festive)
Carbeau’s Detailed Field Report
This is a post from one of our newest instructors “Carbeau.” He is an ex student of mine and an amazing guy in general and he he definitely knows how to flirt with women. I have learned as much about life and how to carry yourself from him as he has learned from me about game. He has traveled the world, lived in multiple countries, speaks several languages, and is a graduate from one of the most prestigious universities in the world. I pushed hard to get this guy on board, not that it took much lobbying once Savoy and the team met him, and I’m really glad to have him on board. If his schedule permits I plan on having him help me on several bootcamps in the near future.
Welcome to the Team Carbeau!
If you are a new guy and you need to go read a recent post by Carbeau. This field report includes multiple elements of the emotional progression model and walk you step by step through the entire process. Because so much of the dating literature is written by guys trying to make themselves look cool, you often read field reports that are over exaggerated and far from how ‘MOST’ situations go down. My favorite Dating Coach TD says, “The truth is cold approach is sloppy. Really sloppy.” I couldn’t agree more. While you will have some situations where you meet a woman, everything falls into place, and you didn’t have to account for many variables, these situations are the exception, not the rule. Only in Social Circle game will you be able to consistently make things happen with a limited amount of road blocks. Even in Social Circle settings you will find that dating the hottest women will be full of highs, lows, and tons of pain in the ass logistical nightmares you will have to account for.
People assume that dating coaches go out and everything always falls in place. That’s just not the case. They might be more aware of how to deal with these situations, but that does not change the fact that they still happen. This post is a great example of how game often goes. “You’ve got em….no you don’t…..Now you’ve got em!!!!….no you don’t…..She’s off the map…..Now she’s back!!!”  This is the nature of dating in general. It just goes to show you, as Carbeau addresses, the importance of chasing multiple leads at once and building a life style that you are passionate about outside of women. Without that, Carbeau would not have been able to make this happen because knowing how to flirt with women isn’t always enough.
Being as I’m constantly PREACHING and BEGGING guys to focus on building a lifestyle that naturally creates gravity that draws men and women into your life, I especially appreciate this post. I love how he pulls her into events that are already occurring in his life. He already has a rich social circle, he already has fun activities and groups he’s apart of. When the time is right he pulls her into these events and shows her sides of him without him having to pretend or make up some fake story about how cool he is. As she gets to know him more and more, the cool layers of his life slowly get pulled back one piece at a time, painting a really cool picture of who he is.
This is also a great example of why I urge guys to work cold approach and Social Circle Mastery in concert. Of course it’s important that you know how to flirt with women, but you want to use cold approach to meet new girls and use your existing Social Circle to help you leverage it. This post is a great example of blending the two worlds. Social Circle allows you to use passive attraction to slowly build attraction that you would other wise have to force.
Here is the link to Dating Coach Carbeau’s field report:Â Carbeau’s Field Report
Merry Christmas readers,
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