Dating Tip: Master Attraction Through Exercises
One of the easiest ways to practice attraction is through exercises on paper. Simply get a notebook and walk yourself through an interaction with a woman from meet all the way to taking her phone number. If it helps, picture your last interaction with a woman and write out how you wish it would have gone.
Write out each detail from Opening, transitioning, teasing, when you would move her, what you would say to mover her, when/why you would do takeaways, when you would do statements of interest, qualifying her, comfort building topics, how you would ask for her number….etc.
I suggest you do one of these per night before you go to bed. This will allow you to work through your sticking points on paper and think them through. Things happen so fast in a bar or club it can be hard to see where you are getting stuck.
If you are new it can be frustrating because you may not be getting much farther than Opening and fizzling out after a few questions. That’s ok. Keep going out and Opening and fizzling out, because that is a key part of the learning curve. However, use this exercise to help you train to last a little longer.
The better you get, the more this exercise will help because it will help you think through logistical puzzles that constantly pop up and how to deal with them. Maybe you always lose girls because her friends pull her away. Well, sit down and think through how you could handle that. How could you preframe her so she won’t be so receptive to her friends pulling her away? How could you intercept and include her friends giving you enough time to calm them down and win them over?
It should look like this:
Braddock: “Hi, your really cute.”
Girl: “Thanks.”
Braddock: “Where are you from?”
Girl: “Bla bla bla.”
Braddock: “Bla bla bla.”
Hope this helps,
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Interesting article Braddock.
But I have 2 points here:
1. One KJ could practice this exercise IN PLACE of going out, and think that he is becoming a master. Mental practice could be useful, but it’s not a substitute for real experience.
2. After reading “The Forbidden Truth” report by BradP (go to his site if you haven’t already read it, it’s free), I’ve some concenrns about this type of excercises.
I like your blog, keep up the good job!
I think it’s beneficial to feel “prepared” when you first start going out so I definetly agree that there is some value in addressing outcomes on paper, but in the end it comes down to getting out in the trenches
Definitely useful, I already do this but I’ll do more of it.
its essential to do this, i remember back in the day when i discovered MM I did it in a club once and was like “wait, wtf is next?” so i came home and wrote it out.. it helped a lot like you said.
that said, i dont do MM anymore, i am basically fun guy push pull mad kino and quick wit. cant really write it all out on paper, because situation is always different, but like we all do i have a few bread and butter tricks.
I totally see how this can be extremely helpful. I recently did this unconsciously, I have a problem of coming a little bit early that first nut, so I came up with something to say for that.
I say something like, “mmm your pussy was so good, it made me cum pretty quick, I usually last way longer but your pussy was so amazing, I couldn’t help myself..”
Its a frame to set, you’re blaming her for it, its her fault you came and she will still want to fuck you after more and more.
Anyways, I want to get good at teasing, push-pulls, takeaways, qualification and turning things sexual. Since Braddock excels at all these things and he has talked about them extensively, I’m gonna combine those things with this exercise.
Thanks Braddock.
Braddock,
This is gold buddy. I appreciate the great content.
Hey Nick man, I would really appreciate it if you could skim through my latest blog post and lemme know if my head is in the right place.
…I don’t know wtf you did to me dude but after hearing/seeing you speak at lovesystems opening / transitioning seminar (Was fucking AWESOME by the way everyone check that out…) I walked out of there like Jesus or Superman or someshit. I’ve been fucking really hot girls and I honestly don’t know if I’m crazy… Like NO ONE I know has success like this. Thanks man, I would really appreciate it.
-Marc
http://authenticking.com/being-honest-unapologetic-about-your-core-desires/
Finally back online haha!
I’ll take a look at it this weekend hommie
Thanks Mario. I will try to post more exercises if you guys like those.
Thanks for the comment SikNasty
Thanks for the comment DMP
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Thanks for this braddocks. This is will help me a lot wit transition & inner game.
Ur a “Legend”