05/23/11Filed under: Inner Game, Inspirational, Pickup

Start the timer.

Clear your mind. Clear your mind. Clear your mind.

If you’re an intermediate/advanced student of textbook game making the transition to the double-black diamond slope (i.e. you know the model, you know what you should be saying, how things work, etc…), there is a very good chance chance your mind is polluted with negativity and other trash which prevents you from living and accessing your best game.

The obvious
1.) Clear the voice that tells you that “girls like her can’t like guys like you.”
2.) Clear the voice that tells you you’re unattractive and not capable

The not-so-obvious
1.) Quiet the voice that tells you what to do (i.e. “tease her with this line” “you should introduce a role-play now” “move her”)
2.) Quiet the part that tries to think 5 steps ahead in the set… it’s ruining your flow

The advanced
1.) Also rid the voice that says that she will or should like you. Why?
2.) Because you want complete pure mental silence. So silence any voice, positive or negative, that prevents you from living in the moment and in your current actions

Then go around the room, find the first girl you actually find attractive, turn her over by the arm, and hit on her. Be playful but comfortable. Tease her like she’s your little-cousin who 1.) has let you down (though not really, you’re playing with her), 2.) is not something that you playfully assumed she would be (and you are shocked/upset) 3.) is doing something mischievous (you’re reprimanding her / accusing her / or acting disappointed).* Then when it hooks, say something sexual and serious (i.e. “God damn you look sexy when you dance”). Then have normal conversation.

aannnnndddd… stop the timer.

Those are the first 3 minutes.**

-Sterling

*This flavor of attraction is the most effective, but also the most difficult to get down. It’s more so a feeling that you learn to cultivate and act off of rather than a set of instructions followed, which makes it so hard to teach via writing. It is also the reason why guys like Mr. M can punch so far above their weight when it comes to getting legitimately hot girls attracted, fast (not that Mr. M isn’t a cutie ).

Solution? Come to the Playboy bootcamp in July. I’ll be there… with Braddock… and Future… and others. I teach this stuff like a ninja and will change your life. Come!!!

**If you get this down right, it is not abnormal for her to be either either attracted or in the slipstream of flirty/sexual communication within the first 3 minutes.

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