Dating Tips: Interview with Dating Coaches Braddock and Vercetti 2 of 6
Part 2 of the interview with dating coaches Braddock and Vercetti starts with a question based on field reports. The question deals with field reports and breaking them down with key points and explanations. Braddock explains that you do not see much field reports because they take loads of time to tape them, transcribe them, and edit them. However, Braddock states that in the future when he has more interns and time, he will have some up because they are amazing learning tools.
The next question that Braddock and Vercetti cover is about direct game. The question is broken into 3 parts:
1.What is the best time to go direct?
2. What is the best Frame when going direct?
3. How does one transition successfully after delivering a direct opener ?
Braddock explains he goes direct almost all the time in a nightclub. However, he describes there are certain levels of directness one can have, and when to have them. Braddock will go direct if it’s early in the night, but will keep it at a soft level. For example he may say to a group of girls at the bar “You’re cute, what time does this place get good?” Later in the night, when it is more crowded he may say, “Just because you’re cute, you think you don’t have to say hi?” As you can see, the first opener doesn’t hold much sexual interest and is not super direct. The 2nd opener shows much more sexual interest and seeks more of a response.
Vercetti elaborates on this and states that he can feel when the time is right to go direct. He has certain openers that he uses at any time, and others that he calibrates based on the time/scenario. He starts to feel when the time is right because he has his sexual intent under control. Braddock and Vercetti emphasize how important it is to keep your sexual intent under control. If you are too sexual, it can come off as sleazy and creepy and the opener will not hit. Being too sexual will be overbearing for the woman and make you come off as a creepy guy who cannot control his sexual intentions.
Braddock explains that your direct opener and frame should not be over sexual, and should be charismatic and comfortable. You must have the frame that you are comfortable and it is not weird for you to come and deliver such an opener. You must come in with the mindset that you and her are both equals, and that she is good looking enough for you to approach her.
Both Braddock and Vercetti cover the last question of how to transition properly after delivering a good direct opener. Braddock explains this is the hardest part of going direct, and that the first 30 seconds of interaction is vital in progressing with the woman. If the direct opener gets a great reaction, the more you can get away with mediocre transitions. If it gets an average response, you must be ready to transition a lot better.
Vercetti then gives some examples of how he transitions. Vercetti likes to be playfully challenging, and gives some examples of how he does so. For example, after delivering his opener, he would state something along the lines of “You’re a player aren’t you?” He also explains that he calibrates his transition based on the reaction of the woman. For example if the target showed a great response to the opener, Vercetti will increase the sexual tension.
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really liking these interviews, entertaining and informative.
I used the direct openers from the examples in the audio series and they work wonders. The reactions I got were much better than I though especially since I opened girls that were at least a 7.
God damn…this video alone is so friggin valuable. I had a phone consultation with Vercetti before and direct game is the way to go in the night clubs for sure. Balls on the line. You guys rocked it. Keep em’ coming.
Keep these interviews coming! They’re very informative and helpful
Hey Braddock,
I really like this interview but the problem I have when going direct is building that deep and wide rapport.
Any tips on how to set this up after say transitioning with “you’re a player aren’t you?”?
I really like the idea of going direct at all times, but just knowing when to amp it up or not. At first I thought direct openers should be used in high risk situations, but it seems like as long as I calibrate it correctly, it can be used at all times.
Thanks for these interview series, they are super helpful
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These are great!!! nothing I haven’t heard but just a more streamlined distilled down version. Keep them coming bro, thanks again for all your contributions to my life over the years. I know chicks think its weird i have a tattoo saying nicks #1 on my ass, but fuck them!