Braddock On How To Not Be So Gamey
Whats up guys,
People have a tendency to bounce from one extreme to the other. In game for example, guys often go from interacting with girls using no game at all to becoming overly gamey maniacs once they learn this new skill set.
In the interview segment below,discusses the balance between being gamey and being normal.
I really struggled with finding the balance between the gamey stuff and the normal stuff for a long time when I was getting started. When you are going out try to observe what kind of responses you are getting, and use the feedback girls are giving you to determine where you are off balance. If you notice that you are being called a player a lot, or you feel like girls were laughing at your jokes initially but they start to enjoy your humor less and less, or if you aren’t forming real connections with girls, then you are probably being too gamey. If your interactions have a tendency to lack humor and excitement then you aren’t spiking your interactions with enough attraction.
Remember that specifically when it comes to converting numbers into dates, you need to build real rapport during the initial interaction. The girl needs to know that you are more than just that funny guy she met at the bar. If when you text she can recall you being that funny guy at the bar who does x for a living and enjoys doing Y in there free time and you guys have XY in common, then she is going to be considerably more likely to respond to your text messages.
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