Dating Tips For Men: Role Playing to Build Attraction by Neverender
Dating Tips For Men: Role plays
Role plays are an awesome way to build attraction. They bring a unique dynamic to any interaction that separates you from the average guy, they bring the girl good and exciting emotions, fun roleplays will bump your own state while in set, and they can even help build comfort. If you ever run out of things to say you can always initiate a roleplay to bring new content to the conversation. At an advanced level, teaches that you can even begin to qualify a girl under the veil of a roleplay which is pretty awesome.
I wanted to address some common dating tips for men who are just starting to use roleplays might need help on. I remember when I was getting started with using roleplays it took me a decent amount of time to figure all these things out, so hopefully I’ll be saving you guys some time with these tips.
How and when do I introduce a roleplay?
In most cases, a roleplay can be introduced into the interaction very early. I’ll find myself transitioning into roleplays very very quickly. For example, I may have been only talking to this girl in the example below for 30 seconds before jumping into this roleplay:
Neverender: Where are you from Ashley?
Ashley: I’m from Melbourne
Neverender: Sweet. Australian accents are like my kryptonite. Lets get married. Can you cook?
You’ll notice that in the example above I’m introducing the roleplay over something insignificant. This is usually the way it works. Its important to keep all of your roleplays playful and fun. Never take roleplays too seriously. She should always know you are just joking around with her, and the fun vibe is going to be what encourages her to play along.
What should I roleplay about?
There are an infinite number of things you can roleplay on. Here are some things that come to mind for me when I think of roleplays I’ve done or have heard instructors do:
-Assembling a team for a bank robbery
-I’m a stripper roleplay
-Adopting girl as little sister
-Wrapping a girl in bubble wrap and sending her somewhere exotic where you will do some crazy adventure together
- I’m a virgin/Momma’s boy
What do I do if she doesn’t play along in the roleplay when I introduce it?
I think guys make the major mistake of limping in with roleplays, and then totally giving up when she doesn’t instantly start playing along with the roleplay after one line. Remember that when you are doing a roleplay, its going to be your responsibility to paint the picture of the roleplay with fun and ridiculous details until she is ready to play along. Especially if you are introducing the roleplay early on in the interaction, its going to take a little more work on your part to build up the roleplay before she jumps in.
Neverender: Where are you from?
Neverender: Sweet Australian accents are like my kryptonite. Lets get married. Can you cook?
Girl: Wait what?
Neverender: Look, we’ve been dating for like what 2 minutes. Lets just makes this thing official. I’ll take you back to California to meet my parents next weekend.
Girl: Lol Awesome! Do you think they will like me?
Neverender: (She’s wearing a slutty devil costume because its Halloween this week) Definitely! Just make sure to wear what you’re wearing when you come over to meet my mom. I think it says “I’m classy, but I also know how to have a good time.” She’ll love it.
Girl: OMG SHUT UP
The more fun details you map out for the girl, the easier and more fun it will be for her to jump into the roleplay with you. There will be occasions where the girl just isn’t introduced in roleplaying with you on something, in which case just move off it and find something different to banter about.
How long do I keep up with the roleplay?
You always want to get off the roleplay at its peak. When you feel like the roleplay is going to start losing momentum if you continue, get off it immediately and return to normal conversation.
HOWEVER, especially if she was really into the roleplay when you started it, make sure recall the roleplay later in the interation. This will build even more attraction, and also build comfort as she feels like she has this inside joke you and her share.
So picking up from the example from above, lets say we have returned to normal conversation for 5-10 minutes and I can sense now would be a good time to recall the marriage roleplay from earlier.
Random normal conversation about football….
Neverender: Who’s you’re favorite team?
Girl: I love the Cowboys
Neverender: Wow um… I don’t know what to say Wifey… I’m just not sure this relationship is working for me anymore. I’m an Eagles fan, and the Cowboys represent all that is evil in the world.
Girl: OMG NO! I think you’re right hubby this isn’t going to work.
Neverender: Alright let’s divorce. You take the kids, I’ll take the puppy.
*Note: Its important to note I’m divorcing the girl over something arbitrary. Remember roleplays are always fun and playful.
You can also recall roleplays and use them as callback humor when you talk to the girl over phone and text. Here’s an example from my text messages where a roleplay a girl and I started the night we first met is being recalled:
Roleplaying is really simple, and you will find yourself getting comfortable making up these silly scenarios with girls very quickly as you start to use them in field. It will lead to huge improvements to the energy and fun in your interactions as you begin to start using these properly.
Hope this helps guys. Feel free to leave questions in the comments section for more dating tips for men.
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