Intro to Neverender’s Journal- Why We Learn Game
Whats up guys!
My name is Neverender, and I’m really excited to be helping AWESOME new addition to the blog.out with what we think is going to be an
Before I get into some of the cool stuff Braddock and I are planning, I wanted to write up a quick introduction to who I am and how I got involved in game. Like a lot of guys, my life when it came to relationships with women was far below what I wanted it to be, and I couldn’t figure out how to fix it. After a bad break-up (one of those breakups where you feel like you’re going to die and you spend months in your bedroom with all the lights off, growing out your beard, and living off a steady diet of chili cheese fries and pizza you gulf down while watching Forgetting Sarah Marshall for the 300th time on your laptop), I stumbled across lovesystems while googling ‘strategies for how to get your girlfriend back.’
I read magic Bullets, and systematically worked out a way to get my girlfriend back, and I succeeded (yes it is possible, but I’m telling you from experience I don’t recommend it). I realized, however, that even though I had my girlfriend back I wasn’t happy. I couldn’t shake this feeling that I could do better than the life I was settling into.
This feeling of discontent just kept growing in me. I started reading stuff by Braddock, and started dreaming of what it would be like to live a life where I had a true abundance of women. I thought about how amazing it would be if I could CHOOSE the women I wanted to be with instead of them choosing me.
Eventually, I couldn’t fight the discontent anymore and I decided I was going to take the leap of faith and pursuit the life I had always dreamed of, but had up until that point been unwilling to pursuit. Even though I was scared shitless about being alone again I broke up with my girlfriend. We had been together for a total of 4 years, and I still consider it one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. My girlfriend was an awesome person and had always been my safety net, but Braddock talks about how when you truly want something you need to “burn your boats” and go after it without looking back. I still wasn’t even sure if I would succeed at achieving the new life I had planned for myself, but I was committed to trying.
I took my first bootcamp in February with Vercetti in Vegas, right after my 21st birthday. After bootcamp, my 3 best friends and I moved to Vegas. Unfortunately, my roommates were not on board with going out and flirting with girls in nightclubs 3 or 4 nights a week so I spent the first couple months of my journey going out solo to work on my game. I had all this excitement and enthusiasm for learning game, but it was definitely a downer knowing I was going to need to start out alone. The first couple of months are the hardest guys and making it through the dip can be brutal at times, but that’s a post for a different day.
By the time I took Braddock’s bootcamp in July my game was actually starting to get decent. I talked to Braddock a lot that weekend about how to improve my game and how to continue growing both in game and as a person. He invited me to intern for him, and eventually he came up with this cool concept for the blog.
My mission from Braddock:
I want you to start writing a few posts per week on my blog. Center them around your experiences in game, and the things you are learning from me. Be honest. Don’t write trying to impress. Write to teach and to learn. Show the good and the bad, and how you learn from it.
I’ve been doing this so long, I’ve lost touch with all the layers that go into progressing through to mastery. You are right in the middle of your journey, so you will be writing from reference.
This is going to be sick dude. I’ve always wanted to do this and do it right.
Learning game is hard as fuck! It’s a journey full of ups and downs, and no matter how long you have been at this you know there are still more glorious triumphs and frustrating lows in your future. In the 8 months I have been at this, I have learned a ton, and have gone through so much. Its going to be a pleasure sharing with you guys what I have experienced so far, what I have learned from it, and what I’m working on and experiencing now, all the while getting guidance from Braddock, the guy who inspired me to change my life and start setting the standards for myself that I alone determined.
The most important thing I’ve learned so far guys is that deep down learning game is NOT about getting a girlfriend, dating models, or having threesomes (again another blog post for a different day ). Learning game comes from a deep commitment to becoming the best versions of yourself you can be. You recognize that no matter what heartbreaks you have had in the past, adversities you face today, or inner-demons you feel you may wrestle with forever, you continue to pursuit the improvement of yourself no matter what. You push forward because deep down you hear the voice in you. Its the voice that no matter how big or small at any moment forever lives in all of us- Its the voice screaming that YOU DESERVE THE WORLD YOU WANT FOR YOURSELF!
“Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark. In the hopeless swamps of the not quite, the not yet, and the not at all, do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach. The world you desire can be won. It exists… It is real… It is possible… It is yours” –Ayn Rand
With that said, guys it really is an honor to get to post on this blog. My mind can’t stop racing with stuff I want to write about, and get Braddock’s thoughts on. I’m going to post on everything from general game theory, innergame, field reports, phone and text game, exercises, and a lot more, so be sure to keep checking in for new content.
I would love feedback on anything that gets posted or if you would like write ups on something in particular just email me at Neverender21@live.com
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