What Makes A Great Dating Coach?
1. A Great Dating Coach Must Have Great Game:
There are many factors that go into being a good dating coach. Obviously having great game is the number one criteria. I still think it’s strange how many guys I meet from other companies who have zero game. I don’t really get why they are doing this job. It must literally be for the validation of other guys. I don’t know how you would sleep at night knowing you were standing in front of a group of guys who paid a large sum of money knowing you were a complete sham.
Savoy told me that one of the LEAD instructors from a company I will not name, became a dating coach when he had only slept with 1 woman. That is insane to me! What a mother fucker. That means he basically created a seminar off of random posts he found on the internet and pretended like he was an expert.
I don’t know how a guy who does something like that can sleep at night. You can damn well believe his chest hurts every time he looks in the mirror. Sadly, I have met a lot of guys like this in the dating science community. When it comes to how good someone is with women believe what you see him do, not what you hear him say about himself.
I’m not saying that you have to be a scum bag who sleeps with thousands of women to be a good dating coach, but to really master the principles of dating science you will need countless reference experiences in a wide array of situations. A guy who doesn’t understand that can send new guys down a really bad path if he’s not careful.
I know from being a dating coach for a while now that there are certain things that look sexy and then there are things that actually get results. I’ve watched every product on the market and it makes me sick when I see a dating coach who obviously doesn’t get laid standing on stage sounding really confident and convincing to someone who doesn’t know better. This kind of bullshit makes me sick, because for a guy who is new to this stuff and trying to get a solid foundation it is sad that he accidently stumbled upon that guy.
He might spend 6 months or even a year studying that dating coaches method and really building a rotten foundation. Sadly, he will have to spend another 6 months or more unwinding all the weird bullshit he has internalized (that’s if he even realizes that what he is learning is wrong).
I have watched so many of these infield videos that look good on the surface, but to a guy who actually dates and sleeps with hot girls, he can tell that these guys are simply making these girls laugh and have zero chance of sleeping with them or dating them.
Take the time to really read dating coaches’ posts and compare that to other dating coaches posts. If you dig deep enough, you can tell who is full of shit and who actually gets results.
Having great game does not mean that the dating coach can walk into any bar in the world and walk out with a hot woman EVERY night, that is unrealistic. You should never judge ANY dating coach of one night or even one weekend. You should judge his overall success. A dating coach who has truly mastered this stuff and is practicing what he preaches is consistently sleeping with and dating beautiful women.
If you want to learn how to date beautiful women, make sure you pick a dating coach who consistently dates beautiful women. If you want to date 5′s and 6′s then find a dating coach who consistently dates 5′s and 6′s (there are plenty of them out there).
2. A Dating Coach Must be a Great Teacher
When listing to a dating coach teach ask yourself this, “Is he teaching to make himself sound good?” “Is he speaking from a place of a guy who has been there before or does he sound more like he’s trying to convince himself he believes what’s coming out of his mouth?”
There are definitely other things, but these two are the most important.
Alright that’s all the time we have for today folks.
Remember “I before E except after C”
-Braddock
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So where does David X fit into all this? Thanks.
LMAO!!!!!! Larry and David X are at the pinnacle of dating coaches.
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man you are so right. I have seen some kids who spent thousands of dollars to live with a dating coach for a week and have zero game at the end. Some guys just have good marketing….
Hey Braddock…you would be doing all of us a favor if you could name these scum bags…I know it will probably cause lawsuits or whatever but I don’t care…you would be saving thousands of guys from learning from these scums of the earth…your helping more than your hurting if these guys are called out..again just a suggestion
There is obviously a lot to know about this. I think you made some good points in this subject. So, just want to say great job!
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